Elmira, New York
Belinda A. “Sam” (May) Wagner – 63 – of 247 Watercure Hill Road, Elmira, NY died Thursday morning (October 10, 2024) at her home, following a long illness.
Born in Elmira on August 26, 1961, she was the daughter of Adolph “Sonny” & Carol (Dixon) May.
Sam grew up in Elmira and was a graduate of Elmira Free Academy (class of 1979). Throughout the years she had been employed as a waitress at several restaurants and diners in the Elmira area.
An avid NASCAR fan (favorite driver was Michael Waltrip), Sam also enjoyed horseback riding and in her younger years loved equestrian riding.
Sam was preceded in death by her parents, Adolph & Carol May.
She was married to James “Jim” Wagner who survives. Also surviving are her son, Brett (Toni Zahorian) Kirton of Indiana; 3 brothers, Brian (Jill) May of Hornell, Chris (Carol) May of Elmira and John May of Horseheads; several nieces & nephews.
At Belinda’s request there will be no calling hours. Family & friends are invited to a “Celebration of Life” to be held Saturday, October 19, 2024 from 1:00 PM – 4:00 PM at the The Starlite Room, 3018 Lake Road, Elmira, NY.
Funeral arrangements are in care of the Dagon Funeral Home, 38 Church St., Hornell, NY.
Sam’s family request that in lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in her name be made to CareFirst Hospice, 3805 Meads Creek Road, Painted Post, NY 14870.
To leave an online condolence or share a memory, visit www.dagonfuneralhome.com.
Thoughts and prayers to the family. Sam was a great person and friend … Had lots of laughs back in the days , she will be missed but never Forgotten. RIP Sam ❤️
Sam,
You have been my best friend for so long. It is hard for me to think about a life without you. Our calls several times a week I am going to miss the most. You told me things that no one else knows and I did the same! I will miss all our inside jokes, laughs, and tears we shared. When I went to the hospital to see you, you smiled and said ” I love you always remember that!” You gave me the biggest kiss when I left and smiled. I will never forget that and neither will you. I found a letter you wrote me the day you left to go be with your dad. It was a sign! I will be sure to go to Florida when the storms are over. I will go to all my favorite places and tell you about them. I will keep an eye on football and Nascar for you! I will love and miss you always! The Littles will never forget “their grandma Sam!” The only family we have ever had. Rest in paradise make sure you take a good look at “your” Toby Keith not just the dog lol. Tell your dad I said hi! Until we meet again babe xoxo
P.s. I know you are saying a few things about the pics lol I can hear you! However you are beautiful always inside and out!
My beautiful sister I love you Sam. Miss you so much God Bless and thank you to you and your staff Jim
My condolences to the family.