John D’Apice – 85 – of 221 Vincent St., Hornell, died Saturday evening (February 4, 2012) at St. James Mercy Hospital, following a long illness.
Born in Yonkers, NY on October 15, 1926, he was the son of Anthony & Anna (Grillo) D’Apice.
He has resided in Hornell since 1942 and attended Hornell High School (with the class of 1944). Because of his love of his country, John made the patriotic decision to drop out of high school and serve his country during WWII. He joined the US Navy and served in the Atlantic aboard the USS Amsterdam and later the USS Patoka.
Many years later, US Government finally acknowledged the sacrifice that so many young men made to leave high school to serve their country during wartime. So, in 2001, John along with several other local veterans were honored & finally thanked for their service and were awarded their high school diplomas in a ceremony on the Broadway Mall.For 12 years, John was employed as a heavy equipment operator in the construction industry and worked on the building of the Almond Dam. He later served (for 23 years) as custodian at the Bryant School, retiring in 1984 due to health reasons.
John served as Scout Master for 1 year and Assistant Scout Master for Troup 17 for 4 years. He served as liaison officer & bus driver for the Tiersman Drum & Bugle Corp VFW for 5 years and served as Commander of the Hornell VFW Post 2250 for 2 terms. John was a Hornell Little League coach for 4 years and coached in the Hornell Grasshopper League for 2 years. He also served as Hornell 7th Ward Alderman for 4 years where he voted in favor of the building of James Street Park and the Hornell Reservoir.
He was a member of Our Lady of the Valley Parish and a communicant of St. Ann’s Church. As a volunteer in Hornell community, John donated his time with the RSVP Cluster Group, American Red Cross, Pro Action Nutrition Program (Meals on Wheels). He was a member of the Hornell VFW, AMVETS and the Hornell Association, Disabled American Vets (DAV) and the USS Amsterdam Reunion Association.
John was preceded in death by 3 brothers, Frank D’Apice, Mike D’Apice and Robert D’Apice; his son-in-law, Steve Wetherbee.
Surviving are his wife, Dolores; 1 son, Anthony (Allisa) D’Apice of Dunlap, TN; 4 daughters, Theresa (Joe) Lecceardone of Arkport, Mary Lee Wetherbee of Cave Creek, AZ, Dominica (William) Paul of Glendale, AZ, Johna D’Apice of Canisteo; 2 step-children, Richard (Sally) Head of Hornell and Barbara (Robert) Contente of Dansville; brother, Alfred (Marilyn) D’Apice of Hornell; 18 grandchildren; 4 step-grandchildren; 17 great-grandchildren; several nieces & nephews. He will also be sadly missed by his faithful companion, Shelby.
The family of John D’Apice will receive friends on Wednesday from 4:00 PM – 7:00 PM at the Dagon Funeral Home, 38 Church St., Hornell, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday at 10:00 AM at St. Ann’s Church with burial in St. Mary’s Cemetery with full military honors.
John’s family request that memorial donations in his name be made to the Hornell Humane Society, 7649 Industrial Park Road, Hornell, NY 14843 or to St. Ann’s School, 27 Erie Ave., Hornell, NY 14843 Memorial forms will be available at the Dagon Funeral Home.
In recognition of John’s service to his country during WWII, the American Flag will be flown at Half-Staff at the Dagon Funeral Home.
We enjoyed our visits with Grandpa and will miss making projects and cards for him. We will miss you, Grandpa John, and we promise to keep sending our school work to Grandma Dolores. Kiss and hug Willy, Penguin and Mr. Pickles for us in heaven. Mr. Pickles will give you a pony ride when you get there.
Love,
Tanner, Giovanna and Dominic
I was so sorry when I got the call from Delores about John. My prayers and sympathy to you all. I have fond memories of John as Commander of the VFW Post 2250 and just this past August..was so happy he went on our Washington D.C. trip…he smiled and enjoyed every minute! Even holding the bus up..while we looked for our lost Veteran…haha. He was only waiting to use the computer by the WWII Monument. It was priceless…poor Delores. Thank you for your service to our Country…one who served during WWII and a member of our Greatest Generation…. You will be sadly missed dear friend.
I happened to attend Bryant School until 1962 when Principal Gray was in charge. Mr. D. was the custodian and I befriended him through my years. Life seemed so simple and short and through those times Mr. D. allowed me the opportunity to help clean the school. He taught me that cleaning bath rooms and cafeteria was an honorable job. As I grew through the rest of high school and graduated in 1970 I felt that the chores of employees in the school system were very honorable and important to all the students getting a good education.
Thank you Mr. D. for making me a better person,
Thomas McLaughlin
Uncle John you will be greatly missed. Our condolences to your family.
You leave behind you a large legacy of family and other accomplishments.
We had the best times with you and will remember them all fondly.
Sorry we couldn’t be there with you all. Say hello to everyone in heaven and give them our love.
Love
Antoinette & Sal