Mary DiRocco – 77 – of 59 Sayles St., Alfred, died unexpectedly Monday evening (August 8, 2011) at Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester.
Born in New York City on October 10, 1933, she was the daughter of Elmer & Mary (Lawlor) Howe.
Mary grew up in New York City and resided in the Buffalo – North Tonawanda area from 1965 – 1972. From 1972 – 1975 she lived in Hornell and has resided in Alfred since 1975.
While living in New York City, she was employed as a waitress for several restaurants. While living in Alfred, she owned & operated a Home Day-Care Service for several years. Mary later was employed as an Adult Care Giver at Allegany County ARC. More recently she worked in the catering department of the Alfred University Dining Facility.
Mary attended St. Jude Chapel at Alfred State College. She had a deep love of animals and, throughout the years, cared for her many pet dogs & cats. She also loved birds and would feed them out of the back door of her home.
As a person who enjoyed doing craftwork, Mary especially liked sewing, knitting, crocheting and making beautiful Afghans. She also enjoyed gardening – both flowers & vegetables.
Mary was honored to be known as a “Military Mom” as all of her children either served or are currently serving in the US Armed Forces.
Years ago, Mary signed up with the Finger Lakes Donor Recovery Network (Organ Donor Program). Because of her generosity in donating her organs upon her death, several people will have a much better quality of life after receiving her organs. She truly gave the “gift that keeps on giving”.
Mary was preceded in death by her son, Bruce Howe; 3 brothers, Elmer Howe JR, Raymond Howe and John Howe.
Surviving are 3 sons, Kevin (Jessie) Howe of Almond, Joseph (Adriana) DiRocco of Germany and David (Irma) DiRocco of Alaska; 1 daughter, Tina (Bill) Francis of Dublin, OH; 1 brother, James Howe of Long Island; 10 grandchildren; 3 great-grandchildren; several nieces & nephews.
At Mary’s request there will be no calling hours. Private services will be held at the convenience of the family. Funeral arrangements are in care of the Dagon Funeral Home, 38 Church St., Hornell, NY.
Memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society, 13 Beech St., Johnson City, NY 13790 or the Hornell Humane Society, 7649 Industrial Park Drive, Hornell, NY 14843.
Kevin, Joe, David & Tina:
I am so sorry for your loss. My mother also just passed a few weeks ago. They are watching over us from above. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Eileen (McAneney) Busby
Mary, the world was blessed the day were born. I count it a pleasure and my gain that our paths crossed. You will be missed, but because of your belief in Jesus, I know we will meet again.
My condolences go out to your family and friends left behind greiving your passing. Even as you left us, you left gifts of life to help others. You raised your children (and grandchildren)to a commitment honoring God and country, to a life of service and intregrity. They are living tribute to your legacy.
You are missed…
My condolence to Mary’s family. I worked with Mary for a short time at Alfred University. We did stay in touch. She loved her family. She was a very nice person. She will be missed.
Kevin,Joe,David & Tina –
Please accept my condolences on the passing of your mom. My thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time. God Bless.
Teresa
Auburn,NY
Oh Tina, I am so sorry to hear of your mother’s death. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Let me know how I can help you, your family, and/or your puppy. Marilyn
What a wonderful person Mary was to us all. I really miss her already as will everyone that knew her. Such a giving woman. She taught me so much. So grateful for everything.. She was the sheer image of strength. She will forever be so special to me, in so many ways.