Mary Louise (Sayles) Allison – 88 – died early Wednesday morning (April 24, 2013) at St. James Mercy Hospital where she had been a patient for ten days.
On January 24, 1925, a day of a total eclipse of the sun, Mary was born at Bethesda Hospital, the fifth child of Stephen Fred Sayles and Irene Weld Sayles.
Mary grew up in Hornell and was a graduate of Hornell High School (class of 1943). She was first, and always, a caregiver. Babysitting since the age of 12, she chose nursing as a career, graduated from the University of Rochester and worked on the maternity ward at Bethesda Hospital. For many years she also taught classes to expectant mothers.
In June of 1951, Mary met Sindal Burton “Burt” Allison at a strawberry social. They married six months later. He predeceased her July 3, 1995.
Mary looked forward to becoming a mother and she and Burt were blessed with three daughters and a son. Stephen Burton Allison died in 1959 on a sad day that changed Mary forever. She began a search for truth, needing absolute assurance that she would one day be reunited with Stephen.
She became a born-again Christian in 1970 after which she freely testified to everyone – friends, family, strangers, and telemarketers – that she had a baby boy, he died, and she was going to see him again someday because of Jesus. After becoming born-again, she resigned from nursing. She put all of her care-giving energies into her family – her youngest child, her husband, and her aging mother who she attended to lovingly for a decade. Burton contracted ALS and she served as caregiver for the next decade.
In her youth, Mary enjoyed watching Shirley Temple movies and would learn all of the tap dancing routines that she observed while watching the movies. Later, she would perform these routines for her family. Mary continued her love of tap dancing her entire life. In later years, she enjoyed gardening and working on crossword puzzles.
In addition to her parents, husband & son, Mary was preceded in death by 2 brothers, Harold “Red” Sayles and Shirley “Chick” Sayles; 1 sister, Fannie Roblin; her much-loved son-in-law, David Boag.
Surviving are 3 daughters, Martha (Dennis) Stearns of Brighton, NY, Nancy (Nick) Berger of Garrison, NY and Susan (Chet Simons) Allison of Hornell; five grandchildren, Christopher (Michelle) Stearns of New York City, Rebecca Stearns, Ph. D., of Connecticut, Jennilyn Boag (Robert) Pickering of Brighton, Colleen Irene Boag of Los Angeles, and Amanda Stearns of Philadelphia; great-grandson, John David Pickering is a happy, bright 21-month old who brings delight to Allison family members who will share their memories of Mary with him and tell him of her life story. Mary’s sister Genevieve Harding of Austin, Texas, has faithfully stayed in touch, making calls to Hornell to talk with her sister, and she will miss those conversations. Mary also leaves behind numerous nieces and nephews, various relatives in the Sayles, Weld, Nicholson, Conderman and Allison families, and kind neighbors who watched out for her in later years. She will also be sadly missed by her beloved sheltie, “Teddy”.
Since September 16, 1959, Mary Sayles Allison has longed for the day she would see her son again. That joyful reunion has begun and everyone who loved her rejoices.
At Mary’s request there will be no calling hours. Private services will be held at the convenience of the family.
Arrangements are in care of the Dagon Funeral Home, 38 Church St., Hornell, NY. To leave an online condolence or share a memory, visit www.dagonfuneralhome.com
My heart is hugging you girls for your loss. I remember when Nancy gifted Aunt Mary with a pair of tap shoes, and the delight of her grandchildren and their friends, as she performed, always brought a smile to her. When my children were 5 & 8, (now 38 & 42), Aunt Mary was the “go to” person on this vacation to Hornell. She took them on drives thru the country, seeing where their Grandmother and Aunt Mary went to school, picking strawberries, etc., but the most exciting part was when Aunt Mary took them to see “the castle on the hill”. They still talk about it today. We will miss your mom, but I am so glad we have wonderful memories to share. Love always, your cuz in Texas.
I was born in Hornell in 1937. Mary was only 12 years old but she was a terrific aunt. She often told me that she and her big sister Genevieve loved taking care of me. But that didn’t last long as my Mom and Dad moved to Michigan. But Aunt Mary kept in touch by always sending me a birthday card or letters. Whenever we visited Hornell which wasn’t too often, she felt like a big sister to me. I admired and loved her.
just wanted to send hugs to you all. I have fond memories of your Mom….her faith was amazing and she was always willing to talk about her love of Jesus and the Bible. I will miss sending her a card on occasion. May you feel her love with you always, especially with Mother’s Day coming upon us. Prayers and Love…Kim
To All,
Mary’s passing is a loss for us all. My meetings and interactions with Mary were sparse over my lifetime, but always enjoyable. No matter the occasion when you left Mary life felt a little lighter and a whole lot brighter! Even my son Marcus responded when asked about her, ‘yeah, she’s pretty cool, ya know?!’ This from a fifteen year old sums it up. I look forward to seeing her again, and by then she’ll know all the short-cuts to get to the throne room! May your memories remain fond and precious until we see her again.
Hugs, thoughts and prayers from Craig, Kris, KC, and Marcus